What to do, what to do!

Ahhhhhhh! I need some advice tumblr. I really like this guy, but I’m not ready for anything serious and I think he has already got it in his head that we are a “couple”. His housemate called him “my boy” and I said I don’t think so and SHE said I think he is. OMG I’m freaking out hardcore.

Do I tell him that I don’t want a relationship, before he falls for me? Or do I leave things as they are and just go with the flow? I don’t want to hurt him or lead him on. But it’s the first guy I’ve been with after a 3 year relationship. I kinda wanted to play the field, but at the same time I can’t stop thinking about him. Maybe that is because it’s all new and exciting. But should I even go out on dates with him? Or should we just be bed buddies? Because I think I want more than that, but less than romance.

But is there even a word for that? Or should I just not see him until the weekend? Will that make things more casual?

I don’t know!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m not usually the one who doesn’t want the relationship

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